I’m still here. I still have a lot to say, I still create blog posts in my head in the shower, and I still believe I have a unique view on everything—from 5 years of unexplained infertility, 11 IVFs, 6 IUIS, four miscarriages, a crazy and obvious diagnosis, to mother of twins, to not bonding to my children for a few months, etc etc. This is a lifetime of STUFF.

I want to keep blogging, I really do. But it’s hard to now. And the twins will be one year old in a few weeks, so maybe this is a nice point to sort of wind down? Maybe I can write a blog post once a month, checking in on the mental state of a post IFer to mother of twins? What do you guys think I think I should do…
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Comments

[TC]

I think you should do what has been coming naturally. This has been a very organic thing for you and as expected being a mom of twins is a very busy full life. I love the updates, love to read your perspective. Update when and if you want. Xoxo

[Sara]

Do what you can handle. Always love reading whatever you post!

[Mic]

Whatever you do, please don't stop writing. I would miss catching up on you and the twins. Xo

[Bagel 1]

Long time lurker, first time commenter. You need to do what you can do. Selfishly, I would miss reading this blog as it has been of great comfort/support to me during my own journey to parenthood. But you have to do what you have time/space/energy to do!!

[soulshine]

keep it open! let it be here so you have it as a place to write if you need to...
thank g*d you have new things going on and different things to post about, rather than ivf injections and ivf cycles (however helpful and insightful those posts were!). let the blog change as you change, and write when you can... i always enjoy your thoughts, and think of you often.

[Cassie]

I agree with everyone else. Don't let it stress you out, but pop in when you are inspired to do so. I am feeling sort of the same way, to where sometimes I feel stressed because I feel like I should be posting something, but just don't have the time or energy to do so. I always enjoy reading your posts, because you are just a few months ahead of me and it prepares me for the next phase for us.

[Kate B]

I think you should do what works for you. I will miss you if you stop blogging, but will understand.

[Nancy]

I think you should do what works for you but I would truly miss you if you disappeared all together.....love reading your updates!

[soulshine]

how are things going sunshine? hope you're all well!

[Heather]

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